Comments on: An Open Letter to All Women: How to Really Meet Mr. Right

By: Robert Johnson

Robert Johnson — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 20:21:20 +0000

Offering women a free one time half hour person training session. Help yourself meet Mr. Perfect.

By: Mo

Mo — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 20:34:08 +0000

I agree with 1 thru 5.

I HATE LOUD GIRLS!!!

# 6 is ok, but they are women, don’t forget that.

If I may add a few more to your list:

7. Remove your ‘kiss blowing’ photos off facebook.

8. Be feminine.

By: Gillian

Gillian — Tue, 18 Jan 2011 10:58:33 +0000

This is a great list! I like men who work out and people automatically assume it’s because I want a guy with a six-pack but I want a guy who has self respect and cares enough about himself to work out. I don’t want to be with a guy who works out just to get a female because when he does, he’ll be couching it again!

By: Cunningham

Cunningham — Fri, 26 Nov 2010 16:41:49 +0000

I agree with this list, except for #1. The assumption that a woman (or man) is overweight because they live a sedentary lifestyle and/or overeat is not always the case. Some people are just overweight regardless of how much they exercise or eat “properly”.

It all comes down to personal preference and lifestyle. It is assumed that if a woman is thin, then she must be active. I have a female friend who eats like “horse”, drinks beer like a “man”, and sits on her butt all day long reading. She is also slender and of the mindset that people who workout are “stupid”.

Let’s face it: it says a lot about you and who you can attract. If you are seen with an overweight, yet totally awesome, woman, you are afraid of what people will say and think about you. There is no trophy, so to speak.

This is Boston; probably the only city outside of LA/Orange County where appearance takes top priority over everything else. Well, with the one possible exception being salary.

By: Robin

Robin — Thu, 15 Jul 2010 12:07:16 +0000

PUA Gathering…
That is NOT true. Fit women still have problems with men. The major difference is that they have an easier time finding them in the first place.

Other than that, also spot on!!
For the woman’s open letter to men, check out http://www.achickseyeview.com. Same type of advice with the shoe on the other foot!

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By: PUA Gathering

PUA Gathering — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 23:25:49 +0000

oh man, that’s a great list. Number 1 is so true, it’s good to see someone upfront and honest about it. Girls don’t want to admit and guys all beat around the bush to upset someones feelings. The girls who complain about getting or keeping a man are always 20lbs overweight or so. Girls in shape and keep up at the gym never seem to have any trouble at all.

By: Date the District

Date the District — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 20:01:39 +0000

I have to say I completely agree with number 5. Your friends will give you the WORST advice, often because you only turn to your friend when you already know the answer. When you want to do something stupid (like call your ex who stopped returning your texts months ago), you ask your friends, hoping one will talk you into it. Here’s my whole take on this: http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/12/word-of-advice.html

By: The Boston Bachelor

The Boston Bachelor — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 01:29:22 +0000

Amed… PS Vermont girls have the best New England accent. The worst is a toss up between Cranston RI and Lowell MA.

By: V

Mon, 28 Dec 2009 22:23:56 +0000

Floor,

I like number 5 kid… Rattlesnake there of.

~Frank