Comments on: Words of Wisdom from Ian Coburn

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 20 Feb 2011 17:25:41 +0000

Just thought I should through this in there. You don’t necessarliy have to be a ‘nice guy” to be chivalrous. You can still be that “bad boy” that women want, but coming from experiences I’ve had, when shit like that happened, the dude got no where near her. She was pissed at me for scaring away guys but when she sobered up and her roomates explained what had happened she apoligized to me. We started dating a couple of weeks later. True this rarely happens, but I’d be damned if I would let somebody take advantage of a drunk girl, that shit ain’t happening. As far as being the alpha male, just don’t take any bullshit and stand up for what you believe. You can still be a leader and be nice to women, but you have to put yourself into a position to be able to dominate other males. Just saying

By: True Love

True Love — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 21:47:30 +0000

Girls will always go for the Alpha Male and nice guys are not them, they are not the natural leaders.

By: Anderson

Anderson — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:20:25 +0000

I pretty much followed the same approach and yes, I have not got laid as much as I would have wished for.
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By: The Boston Bachelor

The Boston Bachelor — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 17:39:43 +0000

The lost art of the tweener, indeed. Though I always thought of Rip Hamilton as more of a pure 2. Would Dwayne Wade be considered the best tweener out there today? I’m not sure if I could call him that because he practically does everything for the entire team. That’s like calling LeBron a utility forward.

As for V28′s comment (as opposed to V27′s), I think the best way to find that right balance is to hit the opposite end of the spectrum first, spend a few months there, then work your way back to the middle.

I hope that second round draft pick turns out well.

By: Anna Liffen

Anna Liffen — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 23:11:03 +0000

Great blog, will check back in!

By: V

Tue, 10 Mar 2009 00:26:04 +0000

I think we should all watch tapes of Sam Cassell, Rip Hamilton, and Sherman Douglas to get a feel for this in between game.

The Tweener,

~A Lost Art

By: vinny28

vinny28 — Fri, 06 Mar 2009 14:30:13 +0000

I agree, the in between thing is hard because you really dont know when to hit the gas or when to step on the brakes. And some woman can make it very difficult, i have always noticed that the bigger the jerk the more attractive the woman, go figure!? Anyway great article, thanks for sharing.

Vinny28(go pats!!)

By: Boston Knucklehead

Boston Knucklehead — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 10:36:55 +0000

The art of the in between. There should be a book written or a class taught because many guys fall into this area.